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berockly (TTG)
Racism being invented is such a funny sentence
it is funny but it's literally true--the first recorded instance of "white people" and "black people" in history is in a letter that some bishop wrote to reassure that crusading knights were still going to heaven
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kaybee
i'm in the camp of normalizing calling them "girlfriend/boyfriend/partner" :3c
now this is the kind of positivity
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i would call my tenants housemates to make it seem like i treat them equally
@KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk - jump petty bougie wordplay! Bah! To the firing wall with you
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i don't know how to finish the sentence so that's it
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kaybee
i'm in the camp of normalizing calling them "girlfriend/boyfriend/partner" :3c
KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 8/22/2023 10:22 PM
that would suggest all headmates have romantic relationship in my head noone is interested romantically with each other
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blanka
it is funny but it's literally true--the first recorded instance of "white people" and "black people" in history is in a letter that some bishop wrote to reassure that crusading knights were still going to heaven
berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:22 PM
Racism happened long before then tho
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae
twix doing capitalism with a human face
KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 8/22/2023 10:22 PM
doing my best
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Ulithium_Dragon | Maledy | Freya 8/22/2023 10:22 PM
Though, the crusads were a war fought over theology, not ecomomics. Boy howdy, was it not done for economics lol.
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kaybee
i'm in the camp of normalizing calling them "girlfriend/boyfriend/partner" :3c
reminds me of a friend who MIGHT BE READING THIS RIGHT NOW ahem
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 8/22/2023 10:22 PM
some finnish workers started protesting for worker's rights in the US around the minnesota area i think, and they quickly started labeling them "not white" and started putting them in some asian category
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
that would suggest all headmates have romantic relationship in my head noone is interested romantically with each other
berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:22 PM
Maybe your just denying it /ser
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/sar
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Ulithium_Dragon | Maledy | Freya
Though, the crusads were a war fought over theology, not ecomomics. Boy howdy, was it not done for economics lol.
It was explicitly fought for economic reasons.
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berockly (TTG)
Maybe your just denying it /ser
KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 8/22/2023 10:23 PM
stop saying serious sarcasm
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
that would suggest all headmates have romantic relationship in my head noone is interested romantically with each other
i'm not saying it should be the default, just a little more common to admit and also as a half-joke
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
stop saying serious sarcasm
berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:23 PM
But its seriiously sarcastic🥺
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I have the article now
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berockly (TTG)
Racism happened long before then tho
Perhaps, but it is widely credited as the invention of the modern cultural institution--racism as personal prejudice may have happened before then, but history says it was more nationalism, not racism that defined tribal biases
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kaybee
i'm not saying it should be the default, just a little more common to admit and also as a half-joke
berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:23 PM
My tulpa left me ☹
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berockly (TTG)
My tulpa left me ☹
KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 8/22/2023 10:24 PM
should jave enlarged that room
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
that would suggest all headmates have romantic relationship in my head noone is interested romantically with each other
does everyone in your family call your partner 'my partner'? no, terms are relative to where you are in the family
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
should jave enlarged that room
berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:24 PM
Idk it may have been the bethroom
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae
some finnish workers started protesting for worker's rights in the US around the minnesota area i think, and they quickly started labeling them "not white" and started putting them in some asian category
whiteness is a culturally defined and historically changing thing, this is true
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blanka
It was explicitly fought for economic reasons.
Ulithium_Dragon | Maledy | Freya 8/22/2023 10:25 PM
Hmm. No you're right. But it ended with huge ecconomic losses,. and continued despite those losses. Though I suppse that probably had more to do with a sunk cost falicy than with the intention to continue despite the losses for some other reasons. Yeah I guess you are right, most conflict came from economics. I mean I knew that a lot did, but not that I'm sitting here thinking about famous battles and wars I'm having trouble comming up with any examples that weren't economically focused. (edited)
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Interesting
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Ulithium_Dragon | Maledy | Freya
Hmm. No you're right. But it ended with huge ecconomic losses,. and continued despite those losses. Though I suppse that probably had more to do with a sunk cost falicy than with the intention to continue despite the losses for some other reasons. Yeah I guess you are right, most conflict came from economics. I mean I knew that a lot did, but not that I'm sitting here thinking about famous battles and wars I'm having trouble comming up with any examples that weren't economically focused. (edited)
don't forget politics of the past
10:26 PM
not just money, but also power
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don't forget politics of the past
Ulithium_Dragon | Maledy | Freya 8/22/2023 10:26 PM
True but more power leads to more money
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berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:26 PM
Why politics in tulpa chennel?
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Ulithium_Dragon | Maledy | Freya 8/22/2023 10:26 PM
And was often the motivation behind expansion
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well, aren't you just dangerously correct today?
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Ulithium_Dragon | Maledy | Freya 8/22/2023 10:26 PM
Because like our tulpas, conversattions also grow and change over time :P
10:27 PM
But you right lol
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berockly (TTG)
Why politics in tulpa chennel?
this is a direct continuation of the discussion on the origins and current usage of the word tulpa
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berockly (TTG)
Why politics in tulpa chennel?
destin, is that you?
10:27 PM
history is the study of the politics of the past so it's hard to say if that counts
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blanka
this is a direct continuation of the discussion on the origins and current usage of the word tulpa
berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:28 PM
Oh okay was just curious
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Ulithium_Dragon | Maledy | Freya 8/22/2023 10:28 PM
I'm gonna bow out, but I really enjoyed the debates. I dont often get to have intellectual debates anymore. A good healthy mental sparing can be very insightful in altering personal beliefs and thinking about things from multiple perspectives.~
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this was shockingly level-headed, I agree
10:29 PM
I'm happy to have discussed this with you all
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berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:29 PM
As .info tends to be
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Tewi: When it's about tulpas, yes. (edited)
10:35 PM
When it's about random drama that isn't worth the time of day though, strap in for war
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(We have been trying our best to prevent and limit such things, though)
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berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:38 PM
Idk, this server is fantastic at not starting drama and having civil discussion
10:38 PM
To be fair tho, there isnt a lot of discussion
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 8/22/2023 10:40 PM
imm still interested to hear what word @A long kiss goodnight will ise to refer to tulpamancy practice (edited)
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A long kiss goodnight 8/22/2023 10:40 PM
Comate
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Cocreation = tulpamancy
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Or comancy if you like -mancy
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berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:40 PM
Cocreation just sounds
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 8/22/2023 10:40 PM
pls no mancy (edited)
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berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:40 PM
Inappropriate
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A long kiss goodnight 8/22/2023 10:40 PM
Cocreator = tulpamancer
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i was thinking of comancer
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I did mention it sounded like a sex thing (edited)
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Reguile
I did mention it sounded like a sex thing (edited)
KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 8/22/2023 10:41 PM
like procreator?
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A long kiss goodnight 8/22/2023 10:41 PM
If you say it fast enough it sounds like comet not that! >:/
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 8/22/2023 10:41 PM
as opposed to noobcreator (edited)
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might i suggest polyception/polycreation/polymancy?
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berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:41 PM
Imagine instead of telling your parents "i do tulpamancy"
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You go
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"I cocreate"
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 8/22/2023 10:41 PM
omg
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"are you in your room cocreating again???"
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A long kiss goodnight 8/22/2023 10:42 PM
I do cocreation
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 8/22/2023 10:42 PM
i cocreate with my comate (edited)
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concrete
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pluralthonk
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A long kiss goodnight 8/22/2023 10:42 PM
You do know some people do cocreate with their tulpas (edited)
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A long kiss goodnight
It was directly stated in the proquest article I read. I can get you the link if you want
I saw two areas where this conclusion could be drawn, but if I missed which one you meant, please point it out. First was this part, when it was describing how she traveled disguiesed as a man and an arjopa:
Besides her disguise as an arjopa and her self-transformation, she also adopted what is conventionally considered a masculine persona without taking up masculine disguise: she carried a revolver to fend off bandits and had an authoritarian way in her dealings not only with servants but with all people (Kasevich 16, 20).
(p. 158, para. 4) The other part is here (all of this and the rest is page 164):
We cannot ignore David-Néel’s tone of cultural superiority when she explains that although Yongden was profoundly religious, “**he smiles at the childish credulity of his unlettered compatriots**” (101–02). On another occasion, when he was asked to perform rituals or tell the villagers’ fortunes, David-Néel comments: “**Seated on the ground, I watched with amusement the various per- formances in which lama and believers played their parts**” (My Journey 61). This ridiculing tone establishes a hierarchy, signaling a failure to represent the different as equal.
I put the quotes in bold, as you can read the author's conclusions based on those quotes.
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10:42 PM
It gets harder when they start to make some of the following accusations, beacuse they're not citing anything with these:
David-Néel seems to have taken particular pleasure in deceiving the Tibetans into believing that she was a Tibetan arjopa.
But doesn't attribute a quote to her based on that to support it. It mentions (and cites a source for)
David-Néel went to Tibet to conduct research on Tibetan culture and to study Buddhism
But then goes on to say
She did embrace Tibet as her spiritual home, but seemed to treat Tibetans, with the exception of certain yogis and lamas, as objects of ethnographic study rather than equal subjects. Can one merely inhabit a space and call it home without an attitude of sharing and understanding, the very tools which create community?
without citing any sources. (it then goes on to say:
And yet David-Néel considered herself more Asian than European, which leads one to imagine that she had more affinity with the former (My Journey 61).
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berockly (TTG)
"I cocreate"
KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 8/22/2023 10:42 PM
tbf it moght make your parents react better than to tulpamancy
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Live Action Character Creation
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berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:43 PM
I dont see any issue with current terminology tbh
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yeah, i think at this point if most singlets know much about "tulpamancy" at all they would most likely know about the people a decade ago explicitly making pony tulpas and such
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okay all these words are too vague... creation? too vague... so we need a specific word that describes exactly what it is... well, it's a person in your head that you share your head with... a head friend... like a roommate/flatmate in the head... a headmate? what about the general practice... well it's multiple people... multiplicity? plurality?
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which is valid, all things considered
10:45 PM
but carries some very specific connotations
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Pleeb
I saw two areas where this conclusion could be drawn, but if I missed which one you meant, please point it out. First was this part, when it was describing how she traveled disguiesed as a man and an arjopa:
Besides her disguise as an arjopa and her self-transformation, she also adopted what is conventionally considered a masculine persona without taking up masculine disguise: she carried a revolver to fend off bandits and had an authoritarian way in her dealings not only with servants but with all people (Kasevich 16, 20).
(p. 158, para. 4) The other part is here (all of this and the rest is page 164):
We cannot ignore David-Néel’s tone of cultural superiority when she explains that although Yongden was profoundly religious, “**he smiles at the childish credulity of his unlettered compatriots**” (101–02). On another occasion, when he was asked to perform rituals or tell the villagers’ fortunes, David-Néel comments: “**Seated on the ground, I watched with amusement the various per- formances in which lama and believers played their parts**” (My Journey 61). This ridiculing tone establishes a hierarchy, signaling a failure to represent the different as equal.
I put the quotes in bold, as you can read the author's conclusions based on those quotes.
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A long kiss goodnight 8/22/2023 10:45 PM
Yes to all of it, but the second point I think makes the most sense. In my head I was thinking about that second to last quote, but as you said it's not backed up with a citation
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sh
okay all these words are too vague... creation? too vague... so we need a specific word that describes exactly what it is... well, it's a person in your head that you share your head with... a head friend... like a roommate/flatmate in the head... a headmate? what about the general practice... well it's multiple people... multiplicity? plurality?
the current branch of "tulpamancy" is only a facet of plurality though, so it's like saying "oh we need a new word for station wagons, what if we just call them 'cars'?"
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how does the server feel about willogenic?
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 8/22/2023 10:47 PM
what is that
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Lilith (TTG) BOT 8/22/2023 10:47 PM
i personally do not want to be compared to a station wagon tyvm
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therefore i hate this idea!
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kaybee
how does the server feel about willogenic?
Drake (DustyAngel47) 8/22/2023 10:47 PM
it sounds like it was made by a tumblr user who wanted a fancier way to put willow into their bio (could be worse though) (edited)
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The suffix "genic" makes whatever you put in front of it seem like an illness
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berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:48 PM
We shouldnt call them anything
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kaybee
the current branch of "tulpamancy" is only a facet of plurality though, so it's like saying "oh we need a new word for station wagons, what if we just call them 'cars'?"
i think 'estate' would be a good term for it /j
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berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:48 PM
We should just
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Tulpamancy
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Drake (DustyAngel47)
it sounds like it was made by a tumblr user who wanted a fancier way to put willow into their bio (could be worse though) (edited)
A long kiss goodnight 8/22/2023 10:48 PM
I think it unironically was
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what about thoughtform or parogenic
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Drake (DustyAngel47) 8/22/2023 10:49 PM
we have endogenic in our bio but honestly that's more to sus out sysmed weirdos more than anything
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berockly (TTG) 8/22/2023 10:49 PM
Demonmancy
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A long kiss goodnight 8/22/2023 10:49 PM
I don't like -genic because it's tied to sysmeds trying to invalidate non-traumatic plurality This guy did a write up on it- https://lb-lee.dreamwidth.org/1120824.html
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kaybee
how does the server feel about willogenic?
i avoid the -genic terms and all the emotions people pour into those like a cactus with a happy face drawn on it
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berockly (TTG)
Demonmancy
Daemonism is already a thing
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what is the difference between daemon and demon
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Dream | Shadow System BOT 8/22/2023 10:50 PM
Daemonism is already a thing
@Reguile - jump Indeed!
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